Close your eyes not your minds.
Open not to what you know but to what you can't.
The further you pass from reality of what is,
the farther you go from the belief that you will need to see the inevitable.
Faith alone will not absolve you of your sins. The "Sin Board" keeps all the tracks of each and every one of your personal infractions. There is no God that presents or defends your life in this after-World you speak of so readily. There is no opportunity to throw yourself on the mercy of the court, asking for repentance of your sins, either or whether those sins have been committed here on Earth or there in the below, or Hell as you know.
The measure of your account on your own personal "Sin Board" is why I worry for Mankind and why I know that without question, with certainty, there is much trouble for Humanity to be had after death.
This is not a "Hit or Miss," date. Your date with Death and your arrival into the Hereafter will be kept upon the time of its call. There is nothing that you can do to alter or protect yourself from this extremely hard core fact of which I speak so frankly of.
There are no bright lights, no tunnels to decide to walk through, that would be just the beginning of a death in this life explaining your forward motion towards what will be in actuality. The people you propose come to walk to your aid, your relatives that speak with no delight of this place are guiding you into a blinding light, don't be a fool.
These people, whom are dead, should cause you horror not comfort anymore, for my advice is to not speak to the dead at anytime during or after your life. It is the sufferers of "Near Death Experiences" that tout of walking into the light, but take note that they are back here and did not accomplish such a feat there.
A word to the wise, a word of caution, a word of my observance, I am being only considerate and am trying to be not only attuned but to show compassion for the idea that we all may not be from here: Here being the same place. I say this plainly to you and yours, in the case that a relative, friend, acquaintance, parent or any other entity should try to walk you into or try to walk you into the light; Do Not Go!
You are being encouraged and sometimes it sounds forced to walk into something called "The Light" directly after you have just experienced your death. It seems an awful lot of decisions to be made so quickly, especially while you are still trying to digest what has just happened in what you thought was life. The problem is or the way that i see it, "Aren't you still alive?" I do not like the hurried approach that I hear of people speak of after their Near Death Experiences, I get very uncomfortable with all the pushing.
In my experience as a child, I did not see a light, let alone a tunnel to be sucked into the vortex of, while waiting for my decision on whether of not I was dead. In fact, no one person showed for me until the Demons came to comfort my crying soul. I find comfort in Demons and Spirits as long as I do not see them in full light, for in full light they are terrifying to me. However, the choice was easy from that point forward, I would rather be with any Demon or Spirit, even Satan himself, than to take the hand of a dead person trying to lead me into a tunnel saying "Walk into the light", I will never walk into what is blinding and I cannot see where or what I am walking into, that is Hell to me.
For in death, I found Life and in this confusion nature has insisted that the truth of my story be told. This is my story and this is my life. I did not have one or two of these experiences with what you fear, but I have had a lifetime with whom I have grown to love. The ones who cared, when all of you turned your back and feared when you looked upon my face. I will support and stay with what I know, rather than to acknowledge that there are now dead men and women walking this Earth with no Soul, no Heart and no care to the Welfare of anyone but themselves.